How To Become A Chick Magnet

These things are as follows:

  • Be generous. Women do not like stingy men.
  • Be very optimistic.
  • Approach a woman without the fear of rejection. If you are rejected then it's not a problem. It doesn't have to hurt you or diminish your confidence. She may have been wildly attracted to you but had personal reasons for not wanting to go home with you tonight. Anyway, there is nothing you can do to change the fact so get over it — fast.
  • Mentally tell yourself that you are a great and confident guy.
  • A smile does not cost you anything. So put a smile on your face all the time.
  • Women prefer men who have a great sense of humor. So make sure that you know what to say and how to behave in front of women.
  • Have faith and believe that you can do it.

Have you spent quite some time in your life trying to think of a way to attract women to you? If you have learned anything about women from your endeavors then you can call yourself a psychologist now. There is a branch of study that is dedicated to discovering or finding out the type of men that most women opt for. In general, the people who undertake these studies do not take into account the materialistic factors, such as money, that may attract women to men. The study is about psychology and how it affects seduction.

In recent research from Japan and Britain, it was found that the factors that influence seduction are not just how a guy smells or looks. The study reported that women are aware of the fact that good-looking guys may not be a good choice for a long-term relationship, which is what most women are looking for, deep down. They consider that handsome men are unreliable, more likely to be unfaithful, and only good for short-term relationships.

Also, this study reported that given a free choice, the type of man a woman opts for depends on her point in the menstrual cycle. It found that during the period of ovulation, women preferred fit, macho type men (who are likely to make strong, healthy babies) and for the rest of the days, they opted for less macho men who might be thought to make better long term partners. So, if you're not a macho type of guy, you have a great chance of getting any girl, 75% of the time.

However, it is also thought that a woman's cycle makes her more attractive to men at the time of ovulation. So there is a danger that if you always go for the girls who attract you the most at a subconscious level, you will pick out the girls who are ovulating and are not going to pick you tonight. Instead, you need to be aware of who is looking at you a lot and choose those girls right now.

You can hugely boost your 'score' by always picking girls who are attracted to you. You just have to take a few simple steps to increase their numbers and, most importantly, have the confidence to believe that in any room, there will be some women who are attracted to you — no matter what you look like. Once you have that confidence and belief, it is just a matter of finding them.

Besides, if you want to attract and make women fall for you then you should booze confidence and appear to be cool — not in the sense of the following fashion, but emotionally. Be happy, content to be who you are and where you are right now, be friendly to both men and women, and do not react with anger or sulk to setbacks but accept life as it comes.

Think about the guys you know. Do you know some guys who are like that, always happy, laid back, and optimistic? Do they have trouble getting girls? I bet they don't.

So if you are out with a woman or just cruising in a nightclub or at a party, do not show your temper. This will destroy the „top guy‟ image that you have created for yourself.

For this reason, it is important not to drink too much when you are „hunting‟. Sure you can have a drink or two, but don‟t get drunk. Keep that for the times when you're-watching the game with the boys. A lot of guys mix up the two and have nights out with the guys where they drink a lot, go to a club, and try to pick up girls. That‟s a big mistake. Keep your drinking nights separate from your picking up nights. 

Attracting and seducing women is not a difficult job at all if you know what you are doing. Everything depends on how you think and what you think. You need to set your unconscious mind so that it follows whatever instructions you give it. When you tell your unconscious mind that you are the type of guy that women go crazy over then you will find that you are filled with confidence and sex appeal. When you do this, you will subconsciously believe that you are a chick magnet and there is nothing that can stop the women from getting attracted to you

Our mind plays a very important role in the seduction process. Now let us see how it works.

First, tell yourself that you have the power and confidence to get any girl. Say this to yourself every time you look in a mirror, at least three times a day. Tell yourself that you are a very confident person with a massive sex appeal. Say it out loud and smile while you say it.

Don't skip this step, These kind of positive affirmations are something many people skip because they feel stupid, but that stupid feeling is exactly what you need to get rid of.

Affirmations work. You will be a chick magnet as soon as women believe that you already are a chick magnet. Women will believe that you already are a chick magnet as soon as you believe in yourself. It's that simple. Once you believe this too%, you will find that women will not be able to take their hands off you.

There is a particular unconscious region in our brain that functions 24/7 forming our beliefs about ourselves from the thoughts that we have. You may be surprised to know that our beliefs about ourselves do not depend on what happens to us —they depend on the thoughts we have about what happens to us, our own reaction to the events of our lives. You do not need to change any of the circumstances of your life to change yourself into this happy, laid back guy. You just need to think positively (look for the positive in the circumstances and events of your life) and take charge of your life by never blaming other people for things that happen to you.

This doesn't mean you start blaming yourself either — but just accept what happens, it is something you cannot change.

For example, imagine your phone is stolen in the street. You can take action (chase after the guy or call the police) but let's say your action does not succeed and you lose the phone. You might get really angry and curse the asshole who stole your phone with everyone you know. You might curse the friend who 'made you'll walk up that street. Both of these are ways of blaming others for what has happened to you. Or, you might curse yourself for having your phone in your hand in the street or being the type of guy that these things always happen to —these are ways of blaming yourself.

The confident guy would say, don't have my phone — that's a bummer. Oh well, I guess now I have to get that new model that I wanted.' Or, "Maybe this is life's way of telling me I need to cut back on pizzas because that's what I'm going to have to do to afford a new phone.-

The guy who thinks this way is the type of guy that women adore. So, all you have to do to become the type of guy that women adore is change your mind.

Confidence plays a huge role in the seduction process. A man is confident if he is successful and happy in life. When men have these two important aspects of life, they do not feel the need of women. Such men do not care about rejection because they know that when one door closes, another opens. It is because of their happiness and success that they can handle rejection well. In very simple words, we can say that a man is considered a chick magnet if he is both successful and happy in life.

How many guys do you know who are unhappy or unsuccessful but can attract women? None! Women do not like men who are unsuccessful in life. They would most definitely not be drawn toward those men who are unhappy with their lives.

Now the question is: how can you become happy and successful in life?

True, it is not easy to achieve success and happiness but remember that both of these things are relative. Happiness is a feeling that everybody has from time to time and it is actually very simple to find things to be happy about in almost any situation if that's what you are looking for.

While you can also define your own success (you can set your own goals, and if you meet them, you are successful) success is a little different because other people's definition of it will come into play. However, certain factors will make you appear to be successful on your own terms so that you can be a true chick magnet.

These things are as follows:

  • Be generous. Women do not like stingy men.
  • Be very optimistic.
  • Approach a woman without the fear of rejection. If you are rejected then it's not a problem. It doesn't have to hurt you or diminish your confidence. She may have been wildly attracted to you but had personal reasons for not wanting to go home with you tonight. Anyway, there is nothing you can do to change the fact so get over it — fast.
  • Mentally tell yourself that you are a great and confident guy.
  • A smile does not cost you anything. So put a smile on your face all the time.
  • Women prefer men who have a great sense of humor. So make sure that you know what to say and how to behave in front of women.
  • Have faith and believe that you can do it.

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